All posts tagged: relationships

5 Reasons Why Date Night Could Save Your Marriage

5 Reasons Why Date Night Could Save Your Marriage

We have something to admit to you. We’ve skipped date night. A lot. Gasp. I know. We’re terrible people. Ok, all sarcasm aside, it really is a big deal for us. I mean, we create content for our website  ENTIRELY about date nights. So if we’re not keeping ourselves accountable in our marriage, how are we supposed to help you stay accountable to dating in your marriage? But on the flip side, we can relate to you. There’s this little thing called life – I’m sure you’ve heard of it – and it loves to do things like make you jump through flaming hoops of fire. Ok, I admit our lives are a little crazy right now and that is an over exaggeration. Life can hit and it can certainly make you busy with the end result being you and your partner missing date nights as the weeks go on. Ok, Stacey, what’s the big fuss? We do date night on occasion, we have much bigger things to worry about, and our marriage is fine. …

50 Romantic Questions to Get to Know Your Spouse

50 Romantic Questions to Get to Know Your Spouse

Do you need more intimacy in your marriage? Or are you newly married and want to know the romantic side of your partner? Or do you want to keep the flame going in your relationship and could use some creative ideas? Either way, talking a pause in the day and carving out time to talk, focus on each other, and even find out something new you didn’t know about your partner will build intimacy in your relationship. Wherever your marriage is at, we have come up with 50 (some fun, some sexy, some thought provoking, but all romantic) questions to ask each other on date night. Find a quiet place, get comfy, light some candles, follow the instructions below and let the conversation begin!     Instructions: Download the PDF! Print, cut, fold each question and place them in the bowl, times two (one bowl with the 50 questions for you and one for your partner). Take turns pulling questions from your bowls and answering them. Keep in mind that these are great conversation starters. …

15 Guaranteed-to-Win Gifts for Him

15 Guaranteed-to-Win Gifts for Him

Behold. The holy grail. A list of gift ideas that are sure to impress the man in your life. Let’s be real. Shopping for your man for the holidays, anniversary, or birthday can be one of the hardest things to do. Speaking from experience, my husband tends to have everything that he needs and I usually have to get a little creative every Christmas and birthday. So with that, I’m here to help take some pressure off of your gift giving celebration and provide you with a tried and true list of ideas your man will love! Hopefully your gift shopping will be a little easier than mine 😉 Luxury pen – This isn’t just your run of the mill ball point pen from Staples. Make your man feel like million dollars while he’s at work. Check out Tiffany & Co., Cross, or Parker to name a few. Some will even do an engraving for you. A nice framed picture of the two of you together – This one doesn’t hit the piggy bank and …

Introducing Date Love Repeat

Hello Tonight’s Better Together Fam! If you’ve been following us for a while, you’ve probably noticed we’ve been living on Pinterest and Instagram apart from our main website. We’ve found some amazing community there and met some awesome people as a result. But we didn’t want to stop there and we’ve decided to open a group on Facebook for the collective minds who care about something we all have: relationships! We’ve titled this community “Date Love Repeat” because it’s important to do just that in a relationship. We want to encourage you consistently date your partner/spouse and keep the love alive. If you want to continue the conversation come join us at: Date Love Repeat If you have topics you’d specifically like to talk about, comment on this post.

30+ Date Night Ideas for Foodies (Other than Going to a Restaurant)

30+ Date Night Ideas for Foodies

Tired of the same old local restaurants or the stereotypical dinner and a move date nights? We’ve got just the thing for you (well, 33 to be exact). Whether you’re on a budget, bored and in a foodie rut, or just looking for some ideas to spice up your night together, we’ve go you covered with some fun date night ideas for fellow food lovers. Bon appétit! Try a new recipe together – have a favorite dish at a local restaurant? Or are you up for the a culinary challenge? Make a fancy dinner from scratch at home. Our favorite cookbook for date nights at home is Thomas Keller’s “Ad Hock at Home”. We’ve also got some of our favorite date night recipes right here on the blog. Make tapas and snack all night – I love tapas because I can never decide on what I want to cook. Make appetizer serving sizes of your favorite dishes to share with your sweetie. Chocolate and pink champagne – pick up an assortment of chocolate truffles from …

Why is everyone getting divorced?

Why is Everyone Getting Divorced? Top 10 Reasons According to Google

One thing you hear these days is that the divorce rate is on average about 50% and gets worse with sequential marriages. With statistics like that, all of us who aspire to love our spouses and grow a healthy and happy family might as well flip a coin at the altar. Heads, we make it. Tails, we’d better get a pre-nup. Here at Tonight’s Better Together, we don’t accept this as fact but as more of a cautionary tale. All it tells me is that it is harder than many think to have a successful and happy marriage. So being the data nerd that I am, I thought it might be interesting to see what the top reasons are for divorce according to the top search results from Google. Infidelity – This seems like common sense to most. If you park your car in a garage you don’t pay the rent on, you might have some issues with your landlord. But in all seriousness, infidelity is a major violation of trust with your partner and …

65 date night ideas for active adventurous or outdoorsy couples

60+ Date Night Ideas for Active, Adventurous, or Outdoorsy Couples

Date nights don’t always have to be dinner and a movie. Whether you and your spouse love being outdoors, getting some exercise in, or enjoy trying something new, you’ll hopefully find something in this list that will give you a fun activity to try out for date night! Go kayaking – whether you rent or own kayaks, live by a river, lake, or ocean, hit the water with your boo for some awesome views and a good work out together. Go hammocking – you might laugh at this one, but this is seriously one of our favorite activities together. Though there’s no workout involved (unless you hike), it’s a great way to do something different and get outside together. Check out our version of this fun and unique idea! Go hiking – this is a great work out and you can experience some amazing adventures together. This is one of our favorite day date ideas to do on the weekends! If you live in the New England area, check out our hiking adventure at Beavertail State …

25 reasons why your communication is breaking down in your relationship

24 Reasons Why Your Communication is Breaking Down

If you find yourself fighting with your partner frequently, you may find it can often be attributed to poor communication. Communication, both verbal and physical, is how we interact with our fellow human beings all of the time. When you spend a lot of time with your significant other, there are many reasons why your communication might be breaking down. Here’s a few situations to avoid when communicating with your boo: Complacency – We all can get complacent from time to time. It’s like turning the cruise control on for your life. When you do this, you breeze right by red lights and warnings that will alert you to any issues in your relationship. Thinking you’re too busy – We all think we’re too busy but if you actually plan out your schedule, you might find enough time to talk to your boo. Social media – Social media is an amazing tool to communicate with friends, brands, and businesses. However, it is a terrible time suck if you let it be. Sign out of your …

Date Night Worthy Recipe: Chocolate Chip Blondies

We’ve got another post curated by our resident Tonight’s Better Together Chef, Joe Choi. He’s got a two part recipe offering  the best dang plain bondies or chocolate chip blondies that can be adapted into chocolate chip cookies for your consuming pleasure. Read on to see how he takes a simple recipe to the next level just in time for date night.   It just so happened that my lovely friends, Eric and Stacey, managed to stop by my little hometown of Spokane on their move back west. We decided to make the best of it and collaborated on a recipe together, in person for once. It was a hot and muggy afternoon so we figured what better way to enjoy a summer day than with fresh baked desserts and some ice cream. I was told they had already posted a phenomenal chocolate chip cookie recipe but I implored them to try my personal chocolate chip cookie recipe that could easily be converted into a blondie recipe. To top it off, a little non-dairy, peanut …

Road Trip Wrap Up

For those who have been following along know that we’ve picked up our life again and have ventured back to the West Coast. We’re sure those of you who have made massive moves like this are shaking your head and wondering if we’re crazy or masochistic. We’re neither, we promise but it was the right time and place. We said some tough goodbyes to our East Coast friends and family, and through tear-filled eyes, we left behind some incredible people and some unforgettable memories. It’s not an end but a new direction. True to our adventurous nature, we decided to turn our cross country move into a road trip to remember. Here’s a blow by blow of our trip through the American heartland. Day 1: Long Island, NY Our first stop on our trip was to say our final goodbyes to our New York family. We spent the last hours on the East Coast enjoying the sunny warmth, dipping our toes one more time into the Atlantic. Our time on the beach was followed by …

New York thin pizza crust dough and tomato sauce recipe

Date Night Worthy Pizza Dough and Tomato Sauce Recipe

It seems that everyone has a relationship with the cult classic pizza. Whether you like it thick, thin, extra cheesy or full of veggies everyone has their preference. Our resident Chef Choi came up with a date night worthy pizza recipe that is sure to delight you and your boo. Here’s what he has to say about this american institution.   I love pizza. I could probably eat pizza for the rest of my life and never get tired of it since you can make anything into a pizza. Have you ever had a taco pizza? How about a Big Mac pizza? If not, then you are missing out on a slice of hand-held, cheesy pleasure. But fear not, here is a relatively easy pizza dough recipe that will give you a great foundation to make any kind of pizza you can imagine. The possibilities are infinite and the world is your oyster, as long as you make into an oyster pizza. Thin Crust Pizza Dough Ingredients: 2.2lbs Bread Flour* 2 oz corn meal 1 …

Happy 4th of July

A Big Announcement + A Happy Fourth of July

We have a big announcement to share with you. After three years of incredible adventures, amazing food, unforgettable people, challenging weather, and the perfect place to start our marriage, we’re saying a bittersweet farewell to Rhode Island and starting a new chapter of our lives in Seattle, Washington. A very special thank you to those in Little Rhody that welcomed us, inspired us, and challenged us. We’ll be continuing our married adventure in the Pacific North West in just two short weeks. Stay tuned for an epic road trip through the northern half of the U.S. soon! We’re also excited to be celebrating the Fourth of July in Rhode Island one last time. One of the New England things we will greatly miss is the patriotism here. This is, after all, the epicenter of where the United States became its own country and it’s an honor to celebrate on the land where battles were fought, sacrifices were made, and freedom was won. To those of you in the U.S., we hope you have a happy …

Eric and Stacey

21 Things You Didn’t Know About Us

We spend a lot of time sharing date ideas, marriage resources, and recipes for two with you so we thought it was time we’d share a little about ourselves. Hope you get to know us a little better! Stacey: I have an obsession with sharks, especially great whites. I think they get a bad rap and great white attacks are because of confusion or curiosity. I do fear bull sharks though due to their territorial behavior. I actually had an encounter with one on the shores of South Carolina and was nudged in the leg a couple of times. I took it as a warning and Jesus-lizarded (is that a word?) across the water. My bucket list is swim with a Whale Shark. Eric: I don’t have an acute fear of spiders but I would safely say they are probably one of my least favorite animals on the planet. Eight legs just ain’t right and there is no way you can convince me otherwise. Stacey: Eric and I actually first met at church. It was …

Attention Engaged New Englanders!

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8 ways support your spouse when they lose their job

8 Ways Support Your Spouse When They Lose Their Job

This month, we’ve been faced with something we’re never been through. A layoff from work. If you’re a seasoned human being, I’m sure you’ve been through it. It happens to many of us. But this is our first time. And it’s rough. If you’re going through a job loss with your spouse, we’re here to encourage you. We want to lift you up in this time of trial because trust us, it can be trying on a marriage. So as we’re going through this as a family, I thought why not share some valuable lessons we’ve learned on this journey. 1. Have a “it’s not the end of the world” mindset Really, it’s not. It’s a job. It’s not who you or your spouse are as individuals. It’s actually temporary if you look at the entire span of your life. Okay, I might be getting a little too deep a little too quick, but a job really is a season, not a lifetime. 2. Be constructive, not destructive This is not the time to grill …